Intro — Absence That Isn’t Accidental Unavailable doesn’t always mean gone. Sometimes it means no longer accessible . Part 6 closes this series by reframing absence as authority. Unavailable by Choice is about understanding that distance isn’t a punishment, a reaction, or a tactic — it’s a decision rooted in clarity. Not everyone loses access because of conflict. Some lose access because alignment ended quietly. This is not withdrawal. This is self-selection. Unavailability Is a Boundary, Not a Game Unavailability is often misunderstood as manipulation. It isn’t. Games require intent to provoke reaction. Clarity requires none. When availability changes as a result of discernment, it’s not meant to be noticed — it’s meant to be effective . Being unavailable by choice means presence is intentional. Time is selective. Energy is guarded. Engagement is earned. This boundary doesn’t announce itself because it doesn’t need validation. Clarity enforces boundaries without performance. Why Cons...