π The Day I Stopped Explaining Myself
Part 1 of 6 — From People-Pleasing to Power Moves Series: Ain’t Nothing Louder Than a Woman Who Finally Chose Herself Let’s start here, baby: There is no award for over-explaining. There’s no gold star for exhausting yourself trying to make everyone comfortable. And there’s absolutely no prize for dimming your light just to keep the peace. I used to explain everything. Why I didn’t answer the phone. Why I set that boundary. Why I chose a different path. Why I stopped giving second chances. And then one day—I stopped. Just like that. No big announcement. No dramatic exit. I simply chose me… without giving anyone a press release. Because you don’t owe access to your peace. You don’t owe anyone a play-by-play on your healing. And you definitely don’t owe the world a PowerPoint on why you finally chose to protect your energy. ✨ Why Women Feel the Need to Explain Let’s get into the real tea. We’re conditioned to be agreeable. To shrink when we’re called “too much.” To explain wh...