πŸ’Ž Part 1: “You Were Never Asking for Too Much—You Were Just Asking the Wrong People”

 


πŸ’‹ Quote of the Day:

“You weren’t too sensitive—you were deeply in tune. You weren’t too much—you were overflowing with magic.” - Pink Aura Diaries 


πŸ’– Introduction

Let’s talk about the lie so many of us have been fed: that our emotions are a burden, our needs are excessive, or that we should shrink ourselves to be more digestible. Sound familiar? Baby, you were never asking for too much—you were just surrounded by people who couldn't handle someone that powerful, that intuitive, that alive.

This post is your reminder to stop dimming your light for rooms that thrive in darkness. It’s your era of reclaiming your softness and your standards.


πŸ’« The Truth Is: You Were Always the Gift

If you’ve ever been made to feel dramatic for wanting communication…

Too needy for wanting consistency…
Or too much for expecting respect—you’re not alone.

The truth is: people who are intimidated by emotional depth will always try to convince you that your love is too loud. That your energy is too intense. That your presence is too big. But here's the real gag: they were never meant to hold you anyway. You are not hard to love. You were just misplacing your magic.


🌸 Healing Begins When You Choose You

Choosing yourself isn’t selfish—it’s sacred.
And the moment you start romanticizing your worth is the moment you attract what aligns with it.

Here’s your 3-step soft power ritual to reclaiming your energy:

  1. Journal It Out:

    • Write: “What do I no longer tolerate in this season of my life?”

    • Write: “What kind of love, friendship, and energy am I available for?”

  2. Mirror Affirmation:

    Stand in front of the mirror (yes, glam up if you feel it!) and say:

    “I am not too much. I am just enough—for the right spaces, for the right souls.”

  3. Soft Boundaries, Loud Results:

    Set boundaries that protect your peace, not punish others. You don’t need to fight to be seen anymore. You glownow. And glow attracts what’s meant for you.


✨ Let Go So You Can Glow

Let go of trying to convince them. Let go of over-explaining.
You were never meant to beg to be chosen. You are the choice.

Whether it’s love, friendship, or family—release anything that makes you feel like your softness is a liability. Because baby, your heart is your superpower, not your weakness.


πŸ›Ž️ Reminder for the Soft Life Girlies:

  • Your glow-up is real—even if it’s invisible to others right now.

  • You’re allowed to grieve the versions of you who accepted less.

  • You’re rewriting the story—this time, it ends with you on top.


πŸ’¬ Aura’s Comment of the Day:

“Have you ever been told you were ‘too much’? What did you do to reclaim your power? Drop your story below—let’s heal out loud together.”


πŸ“² Call to Action:

If you felt this post, baby—don’t gatekeep the glow. Share this with your girls, post it to your stories, and tag us @pinkauradiariesxoxo πŸ’…πŸ½✨

Ready for Part 2: “Romanticize Your Reality—Not Just Your Relationships”?
Let’s keep the softness rolling.


XOXO, Pink Aura Diaries

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