PART 17: Becoming “Too Much” Was the Best Thing I Ever Did
Introduction
At some point, they called you:
Too loud
Too sensitive
Too independent
Too confident
Too emotional
Too ambitious
Just… too much
And maybe for a second, you believed them.
Maybe you tried to dim it.
Shrink it.
Soften it in all the wrong places.
But then something clicked—and baby, you realized…
You were never too much. They were just not enough.
Being “Too Much” Was Never the Problem—It Was the Power
The same energy they told you to tone down?
That’s the energy that’s gonna build your empire.
You’re not too much—you’re finally aligned.
You’re allowed to take up space.
You’re allowed to feel deeply.
You’re allowed to laugh loudly, love boldly, dress wildly, speak freely, and protect your magic unapologetically.
5 Ways I Reclaimed My “Too Much” Era
1. I Stopped Apologizing for My Shine
If my light blinds you? Look away, baby.
I’m not dimming just because someone else forgot how to glow.
2. I Said What I Meant, Even When My Voice Shook
No more shrinking in rooms that can’t handle my truth.
If I’m too direct, too real, too raw—it’s probably exactly what the moment needed.
3. I Let My Style Speak Before I Do
Big earrings. Bigger aura. Bold colors. Pink everything.
My look is a declaration: “I’m here, and I love me out loud.”
4. I Took Up Emotional Space
I cry when I want. I speak when I feel. I don’t numb myself down to be digestible.
Softness isn’t weakness. It’s power with a velvet edge.
5. I Celebrated My Power, Not Just My Palatability
I stopped trying to be liked by everyone.
I started asking: Do I even like them?
Now I walk in every room like I belong—because I do.
Affirmation of the Day:
“I’m not too much. I’m finally everything I was always meant to be.”
Journal Prompt:
Where in my life have I been told I’m “too much”?
How can I turn that into power and pride?
Quote of the Day:
“You weren’t made to fit in. You were made to set the room on fire.”
Related Blog Posts:
[You Didn’t Change—You Elevated]
[You Don’t Have to Be Perfect to Be Powerful]
[When You Become the Peace You Used to Beg Others to Give You]
Pink Aura Diaries, XOXO
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