PART 19: I’m Not Cold—I’m Just Healed

Posted by Pink Aura Diaries May 27, 2025

PART 19: I’m Not Cold—I’m Just Healed

Introduction

Let’s get one thing clear…
Just because I don’t tolerate certain things anymore…
Just because I don’t engage the way I used to…
Just because I protect my peace more than I protect your feelings…
Doesn’t mean I’m cold.

It means I’m healed.
And healed women? We move different.

Healing Changed My Reactions, Not My Heart

They’ll say you’ve switched up.
That you’re distant now. Too quiet. Too “in your own world.”
But the truth is—you just stopped trying to survive chaos.

You’re not heartless. You just:

Don’t overextend anymore
Don’t explain what doesn’t need explaining
Don’t participate in things that disturb your spirit

And that’s not cold. That’s called inner peace.

5 Signs You’re Healed, Not Cold

1. You Don’t Chase Clarity from Confusion

You stopped replaying old convos in your head.
If it doesn’t sit right, you trust your gut and move accordingly. No closure needed.

2. You Let People Go Without Hating Them

No more revenge plots. No messy exits.
You forgive for your peace, not for their comfort.
And forgiveness doesn’t always mean access.

3. You Feel Safe Being Alone

Your own company soothes you.
You no longer need loud rooms, constant calls, or outside validation to feel seen.

4. You Protect Your Inner World Like It’s Holy

Because it is.
You stopped letting just anyone rent space in your heart, head, or energy field.

5. You Don’t Defend the New You

They miss the old you? That’s their business.
You’re not going back to broken to make anyone comfortable.

Affirmation of the Day:

“I’m not cold—I’m just healed. And healing taught me peace over performance, silence over chaos, and grace over guilt.”

Journal Prompt:

Where in my life have I been called “cold” for having boundaries?
How can I honor the healed version of me even louder?

Quote of the Day:

“Healing doesn’t make you hard—it makes you holy.”

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