Part 1: The Real Meaning of Love—Beyond Butterflies & Fairytales 🌸🎀💓
Introduction:
Let’s be honest—“love” is one of the most overused, misused, and misunderstood words in the dictionary. People toss it around like glitter: pretty, shiny, but often meaningless when the light fades. But love? Real love? It’s not just about the butterflies in your stomach or the poetic texts at 2 AM. It’s so much deeper. So much messier. So much more beautiful than most of us were ever taught.
In this soul-stirring, no-fluff, hot-pink-truth series, we’re diving headfirst into love’s real definition. Not the one Disney gave us. Not the one our ex faked. But the one that’s raw, spiritual, layered—and necessary.
Whether you're single, healing, partnered, or just curious—this is your moment to redefine what love really means to you.
💌 So… What Is Love?
Let’s break it all the way down. Love is not:
A performance.
A transaction.
A fix-it project.
Or a reason to lose yourself.
Love is energy.
Love is choice.
Love is action.
Love is reflection.
It's how we show up.
How we speak.
How we see.
How we stay—even when things aren’t perfect.
🧠 Let’s Reflect: What Was Your First Definition of Love?
Take a deep breath. Be honest with yourself. Who or what taught you about love?
Was it your parents' marriage? That teenage romance that left you broken? A TV show that sold you drama as passion?
Here’s your interactive moment:
✍️ Journal Prompt #1:
“The first time I thought I understood love was when…”
Write freely. No filters. Let your inner child speak.
Most of us were handed someone else’s blueprint of love—and told to build our entire emotional life off of it. But baby, we’re ripping that blueprint up. Starting today.
💡 Real Talk: Love Is Not Just a Feeling, It’s a Frequency
Feelings fade. Frequencies stay.
When someone truly loves you, it’s not just about how they feel—it’s how they treat you when they’re tired, frustrated, triggered, or busy. It’s how they choose you daily, even when the butterflies fly away and life gets real.
Love is sacred. It's spiritual. It’s the mirror you hold up to someone else that says, “I see you.” Not the version you post. Not the mask you wear. The real you.
👀 Self-Check-In Quiz: Are You Loving From Wholeness or Wounds?
Answer YES or NO:
I feel safe to be fully myself in love.
I communicate clearly and honestly in relationships.
I don’t shrink or overextend to be loved.
I can love without losing myself.
I am open to both giving and receiving love.
Score:
4–5 YES: You’re loving from overflow. Keep nurturing that.
2–3 YES: Growth is happening. Keep unpacking.
0–1 YES: Sis, it’s time to go inward and reconnect with your heart.
🧘🏾♀️ Love Begins Within
We can’t talk about love without talking about self-love. You can’t receive real love if you keep rejecting yourself.
Ask yourself:
Do I speak to myself kindly?
Do I forgive myself the way I forgive others?
Do I date people who reflect the way I love myself?
Affirm this with me:
“I am love. I deserve love. I attract love that honors me because I honor myself.”
🔥 Let’s Spill: Pink Aura Tea Time
☕️ Tea Question of the Day:
“What’s something you used to call love—but now know was control, trauma bonding, or emotional neglect?”
Comment it on our latest blog or write it in your journal. Sharing your truth helps others find theirs.
💎 The Takeaway:
Love is not just romance—it’s the way we treat ourselves, our boundaries, our energy, and the people we allow to experience us.
So the next time someone asks you, “What is love?”
You won’t say, “I don’t know.”
You’ll say:
“Love is clarity. Love is choice. Love is presence. Love is energy in motion that honors the highest version of both souls involved.”
Next up in Part 2:
➡️ “Love vs. Attachment—How to Know the Difference When You’re Deep In”
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