💗 Pink Aura Diaries Presents: The Egg Don’t Swim, Sis—Why the Fck Are You Chasing?
Let’s get one thing clear: The egg doesn’t chase. The sperm does the swimming. Biology already showed you how this story goes, yet somehow women everywhere are running after men like they’re the damn prize. Sis, let’s flip the script—because you are the f*cking prize.
🚨 Stop Running for Discounts You Don’t Even Want
Here’s the raw truth: every time you’re double-texting, begging for his time, or rearranging your life around a man who can’t commit—you’re discounting yourself. You’re acting like your time is clearance rack when, in reality, you’re luxury stock. Designer energy. And guess what? Designer doesn’t beg to be bought—it sits on the shelf until the right buyer knows its value.
Stat Check: Research shows that women who set clear boundaries are significantly more satisfied in their relationships long-term compared to women who over-invest early. Translation? The more you chase, the less you get chosen.
💋 The Egg Is the Blueprint for Feminine Power
The egg doesn’t swim, sis. It waits. It chooses. It lets the sperm work, compete, and prove its strength. That’s not weakness—that’s soft power. And soft power will take you further in life than chasing ever will.
Think about it: when was the last time chasing got you the outcome you wanted? You either got breadcrumbs, got ghosted, or got played. But the moment you stopped running? The moment you sat pretty in your power? Watch how the energy shifts. Suddenly, they’re calling, showing up, and wondering why you’re not available.
🔥 Why Chasing Is a Trap
Chasing a man is a setup. Society trained women to believe love means “try harder.” Hollywood sold you fairytales where persistence pays off. But in reality? That man you’re chasing is using your effort as free validation while putting zero effort back.
Fact: Adults spend over three hours a day on their phones. If he “can’t text back,” it’s not because he’s busy—it’s because he’s not prioritizing you. Period.
💎 The New Standard: Stop Chasing, Start Choosing
This isn’t just about men. It’s about jobs, friends, opportunities. Anything that requires you to beg, force, or chase isn’t aligned with your aura. From now on, the standard is simple: If it doesn’t choose you back, it’s not yours to carry.
Glow-up culture is about remembering that being chosen isn’t about luck—it’s about energy alignment. Stop doing all the swimming. Let things swim to you.
📓 Journal Prompt
✨ Where in my life am I chasing when I should be choosing? Write it down. Look at it. And decide today—you’re not doing that sh*t anymore.
💗 Call to Action
If this hit you in the gut, sis, share it. Drop your thoughts below. And if you’re ready for the unfiltered version—the one I couldn’t even post here—subscribe to my Substack for the full deep dive.
Because the egg don’t swim, sis. And neither should you.
💋 Pink Aura Diaries, XOXO
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